What to Do When Your Child Refuses to Go to School

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Refusal to go to school

It can be difficult dealing with a child that just does not want to go to school. Change in routine, atmosphere and the people around them can be disconcerting and scary for them to handle all at once. This sort of big change can be scary for them and they can see the act of going to school as a negative thing. They may call school boring, saying that they don’t like their teachers, or that they don’t like the other children in class simply because its all new to them. The problem usually starts at the start of a new year for example making the transition to a new school.  An illness or the loss of a family member may also set off school refusal.  The goal is to find out why the refusal is happening to the child. Just how many children are affected is still unclear with estimates varying from 5% to 28%.  According to the Anxiety Disorders Association of America, this problem usually occurs in children ages 5 to 6, and again between the ages of 10 and 11.

If you are having a hard time convincing your kids to give school a try, there are some ways to do so without driving yourself crazy.

When children refuse to go to school

Presenting your child with a personalized book on the subject can easily help ease them into approaching the subject as well as encouraging them to give school a chance. “School is Fun” is a personalized story from KD Novelties that places your child in school and has them solving a mystery with their new classmates. Showing kids that school does not have to be boring or scary can help them get excited to go to school for real. Personalized books for kids on a subject that they are trying to deal with in real life has shown to help motivate kids and instill them with the confidence they need to overcome their obstacles. For instance, studies have shown that presenting a child with a book on potty training while they are learning to do so can help motivate them to keep trying and inspires them to solve their problems on their own.

 Another option is to set up a goal and reward system. If they do not wish to go to school because it is new and they have not gone yet, it can be difficult to convince them to just give it a try, but by giving them a goal and promising a reward or a treat, they might be more willing to give it a try. With this sort of incentive, kids are more likely to be willing to give school a try and be on their best behavior. During this time period, they may even grow so accustomed to school as a routine, especially after a week or two, that they may not need another incentive.

Lastly if the reward system does not work reach out to professionals for help.  Treatment providers working with kids who have school refusal will often use cognitive behavioral therapy, which helps kids learn to manage their anxious thoughts and face their fears. With therapy kids can get the chance to see that they can attend school without anxiety or fear.

Personalized Disney Books Sends Your Child On An Adventure!

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Aladdin Personalized Book
There is something special about Disney stories, movies and shows. For years they have proven to be a staple favorite among kids and parents alike, many parents passing on their own favorite Disney classics from when they were children, for the next generation to love and enjoy. Everyone has their own Disney favorite, but what would make it even more special than a personalized Disney adventure?  KD Novelties offers Disney personalized children’s books that puts kids at the very heart of their favorite Disney stories, from Aladdin to the Lion King, Pocahontas, 101 Dalmations to Winnie the Pooh, and many more of your favorites.
Films can be watched over and over again, but these memorable books can offer something a little more special with each re-reading. These personalized Disney books includes the child’s very own name, their hometown, the names of friends and relatives, and even a personalized message from the gift giver. Most kids have a favorite Disney movie or film, but these stories can become even more special when they can find themselves at the heart of the tale in one of these personalized books.
Pocahontas Personalized Book
Personalized books have proven to be an effective method when it comes to encouraging kids to read. When they see that they are the star of the story, their curiosity is piqued. This positive effect can multiply if you include kids in a story featuring some of their favorite and most beloved characters and stories.  Books that feature kids and their interests are proven to incite a desire and love of reading, so why not gift them with a story that you know they’ll love and cherish forever?

Stop Bullying Prevention Month

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October is Anti-Bullying Prevention Month.

We have teamed up with Pacer.org and have become a champion to raise awareness of bullying prevention.  We are donating 10% in the month of October of all proceeds from the sale of our Terrance the Giraffe personalized children’s book back to Pacer’s National Bullying Prevention Center.  Pacer’s Unity Day will take place on Wednesday, October 22nd, the day when everyone is encouraged to come together and wear orange to send a message of support, hope and unity.  Won’t you join us for this worthy cause?

Award Winning Personalized Children’s Book

Terrance the Giraffe: Award-winning personalized children’s book teaching kids that being different is not bad. Your child helps Terrance the Giraffe through a difficult time when he is teased for being different. A great personalized story to encourage children going through a challenging stage while teaching children not to tease others. A positive and inspiring story that promotes perseverance, confidence and sharing. 

Terrance the Giraffe Personalized Story